Miranda Eyles
Relationship  CoachÂ
Miranda is a distinguished and highly esteemed Relationship coach renowned for her remarkable ability to help individuals and families to achieve a swift and sustainable result.
With a specialty in "Strengthening Marriages/Families/Partners and Siblblings through Proven Communication Strategies," Miranda is recognized for her talent in simplifying intricate problems and formulating practical and effective solutions.
In these challenging times, individuals turn to Coach Miranda for strategies that truly work. Her expertise lies in unlocking the potential of effective communication, fostering deeper emotional bonds, resolving conflicts, and nurturing enduring individuals within marriages/families/Partners and Siblings.
With over 35 years of marriage enriching her wisdom, she offers insights drawn from real-life experience. Her guidance is deeply rooted in her faith, providing a foundation that informs and strengthens her understanding."
Where wisdom, faith, and communication come together to restore relationships and renew hope.Â
 My Story
 For many years, I believed I understood communication.
I was strong, capable, expressive, and confident in what I felt and believed. I thought being honest meant I was communicating well. But marriage — and later raising a teenage daughter — revealed something deeper within me that I had never truly faced.
The pressure of family life exposed patterns in me that were not healthy. My tone, reactions, frustrations, and way of expressing myself were affecting the very people I loved most.
Like many people, I initially believed the problem was everyone else.
Until one day, after prayer and deep frustration, the Holy Spirit spoke clearly to my heart:
“It is not your husband who needs to change first. It is not your daughter. It is you.”
That moment changed my life.
God began to show me that communication is not only about what we say — but how we make people feel when we say it.
I had to become humble enough to ask my husband and daughter a difficult question:
“How does my communication come across to you?”
Honestly, I was not prepared for their answer.
They said they often felt like they were “walking on eggshells” around me.
Those words pierced my heart.
I realised that although I loved deeply, my communication sometimes created tension instead of safety, fear instead of peace, pressure instead of understanding.
That revelation sent me on a journey of change — physically, emotionally, naturally, and spiritually.
I had to learn to:
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listen instead of react
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slow down before responding
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control my tone
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communicate with grace instead of frustration
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heal from my own internal wounds
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allow the Holy Spirit to transform my heart
It was not easy.
But transformation never begins with pride. It begins with surrender.
Over time, our home changed.
Conversations became calmer.
Relationships became safer.
Trust began to grow.
Peace returned where tension once lived.
Most importantly, I discovered that communication has the power either to wound or to heal.
Today, Phoenix Unleashed was birthed from that journey.
Not from perfection.
Not from theory.
But from lived transformation.
I now help others navigate communication in relationships with wisdom, faith, honesty, and practical tools — because I know first hand how damaging poor communication can be, and how healing healthy communication becomes.
Scriptures That Changed Me
“Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt...”
— Colossians 4:6
“Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.”
— James 1:19
The Outcome
God did not just change my communication.
He changed my heart.
And when the heart changes, communication changes too.
That transformation restored hope in my relationships and became the foundation for helping others do the same.
You are not weak because you need to change.
You are courageous enough to heal.
And healing relationships often begins with one honest conversation.
Dear FriendÂ
London
"I have found Miranda’s counseling sessions to be of great value and immense help. She has the gift of being able to give me insight into my husband’s thoughts, actions and provide reasons, which has helped me to understand him better and reduce frustration and miscommunication.
Miranda has a very calming and balanced approach, BUT she will be firm when it is needed. I cannot recommend her services enough, her input has been absolutely priceless, an absolute blessing."
Salise Haith
London |Â lohojo.co.uk
"Miranda is an excellent marriage coach. She has given excellent advice to me and several of my friends, which is always practical and insightful. Miranda was and exceptional in supporting me when I was going thorough IVF treatment and the disappointments experienced during this process. And this is where my coaching business of LOHOJO was birthed.
We know to come to her to see our marriages flourish, but she is also no-nonsense. She will NOT allow me to continue down the path I'm on if I'm not ready to change. Her marriage of over 35 years is an inspiration."
Anonymous
London
"I am writing this testimony to express what a wonderful blessing my counsellor and spiritual mother has been in my life. The last 2 years has been a difficult time in my life, I lost my mother and grandmother 6 months apart and lost a sense of God’s calling in my life. My Heavenly Father never gave up on me as he has been speaking to me and reminding me of his love and purpose for me through Miranda.
God has blessed and equipped her to minister and support me in my spiritual growth and journey. She has helped me greatly during this period. She helped me out of my depression and grief I was facing over my dear mother’s loss. I had a fear of listening to God’s calling for my life Miranda helped me through this crisis in my life by speaking and reminding me of biblical truth in such a kind and simple manner. And through all this she has helped me to adjust and navigate in ensuring my marriage - and relationships are in healthy place during what were difficult times. She taught me how to deal with challenging communication issues with my spouse during this difficult season.
I am so grateful to her wisdom and impartation in my life and family. She shared with me her own personal testimony, her vast knowledge of God’s word and her wisdom goes beyond her years. She always starts and ends our session with powerful prayer and is always flexible rescheduling my appointments when needed.
Before I sought help, I prayed and asked God to find a faithful and wise counsellor for me. Miranda was an answer to this prayer. I give all the praise and glory to God."
Elena Graczykowska
Poland
Before working with Coach Miranda, I had a challenging situation with my Marriage.
Coach Miranda assisted us in addressing unproductive communication issues within our marriage and guided us toward progress and development in our relationship. Today, I have emerged from this situation with newfound confidence and a clearer understanding of many aspects of my life. If you find yourself grappling with misunderstandings, a sense that love has waned in your home, feelings of anger, and a sense of rejection, I wholeheartedly recommend seeking guidance from Coach Miranda.
I would also highly recommend Miranda as a personal life coach, given her wealth of experience as a successful businesswoman and her exceptional coaching skills. Miranda adeptly incorporates various coaching and business tools that are instrumental in fostering personal growth and in developing one's own business.
Furthermore, Miranda's deep spirituality and connection with her faith are truly remarkable. The presence of the Holy Spirit is palpable during sessions with Miranda, adding a profound and spiritual dimension to her coaching.
If you're seeking to discover your true calling and require assistance with your marriage, I wholeheartedly recommend partnering with Miranda. Her guidance encompasses both spiritual insight and valuable business acumen, while also addressing and helping you navigate the complexities of your marriage.
Harriet Chitembo
Zambia
I was in the process of developing a curriculum on communication skills for early childhood educators when I came across Coach Miranda's post on Communication in Marriage on the Purposed Marriage social media platform. That post significantly improved how my husband and I communicate and has led to us having a greater appreciation of each other. We have delved into more of Coach Miranda's work, which I can confidently say has revolutionized our relationship. Needless to say, her work was incredibly valuable in my curriculum development when I initially discovered it. We eagerly anticipate having a session with Coach Miranda because if her book impacted us so profoundly, I am certain a session will be life-changing.
Thank you, Coach.
Mariah Maynard
USA
Miranda has a warm, comforting, and encouraging spirit. She is filled with so much wisdom and is an active prayer warrior which is evident in her sessions as she radiates the love of GOD. She is a great resource for any single lady or married couple and an amazing woman of GOD.
Mariah Maynard (Writer, Filmmaker, & Upcoming Relationship Coach)
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10 Communication Red Flags: Safeguard Your Marriage by Miranda Eyles
This eBook is one of Miranda Eyles' most popular publications available as a free download. Inside of this eBook, you will learn:
- Effective Dialogue Mastery: Unlock the secrets of meaningful conversations, from active listening to expressing emotions constructively, enhancing your ability to connect on a deeper level.
- Conflict Resolution Excellence: Acquire techniques to navigate disagreements with respect and empathy, turning conflicts into catalysts for mutual understanding.
- Unveiling Emotional Understanding: Learn to decode non-verbal cues and unspoken feelings, enriching your emotional connection and enhancing overall intimacy.
- Sustaining Positive Communication Cycles: Master the art of creating consistent positive communication
patterns, ensuring ongoing connection and growth within your relationship.Â
